• Septimaeus@infosec.pub
    231·
    7 months ago

    Flip her onto her side and hold one of her legs upward. You’ll get compliments because it’s a bit athletic and does in fact feel deeper.

    Important: try this only if you know she’s into being handled this way. She likely is if she’s saying things like that, but always make sure your partner enjoys stuff before adding it. Also, the usual cautions re: PIA vs PIV apply.

    Details below. (Edit: CWs added)

    • Septimaeus@infosec.pub
      9·
      7 months ago

      How does it work?

      It feels deeper to her because of:

      1. pelvic alignment

      improves penetration, mostly due to the thighs being out of eachother’s way;

      2. [CW: PIV-specific]

      you won’t slip into her fernix as easily, which increases lateral pressure in the vaginal canal; and

      3. angular sensitization

      generally she just feels you better at unexplored angles where she remains more sensitive to pressure, for a stronger feeling of fullness.

      Why does it work?

      Is it because she thinks your pp is bigger? No, probably not. It works because you’re paying attention and being responsive, which makes your partner feel in control and taken care of. She’ll think of you next time she wants that, because she knows you’re good for it. Better sex, that is.

      Anyway be safe, have fun, and quit worrying about your pp.

      • fossphi@lemm.eeEnglish
        2·
        10 months ago

        Thanks for the wisdom skeletor.

        quit worrying about your pp

        But how do I do this?

        • Septimaeus@infosec.pub
          1·
          10 months ago

          Positive sexual experience. There’s all kinds of potentially helpful advice floating around, like not taking porn seriously, but IMO nothing dispels fiction-based anxiety better than reality.

          How you go about that is your own adventure, but if you want a practical tip on where to begin, I heartily recommend focusing on manual and oral sex first.

          1. It’s a more direct route to giving your partner an orgasm
          2. Skill in that area sets you apart, far moreso than simply a bigger penis
          3. Learning that you can easily satisfy someone with your hands tied, so to speak, will give you confidence when you don’t
          4. If you give someone orgasms this way, and for whatever reason don’t get yours, it’s a good bet you’ll be asked back for round 2 soon after

          Finally, if/when you do proceed to pound-town, you may find your partner is very ready to enjoy the hell out of whatever you’re packing.

          GLHF,

          Skeletor