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Cake day: June 27th, 2023

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  • I’m just saying you’re gross, creepy, and an asshole for subjecting people to your sexual behavior in public.

    And, as I have tried to explain to you more than once, many people feel that way about gay people. In fact, if you go to pretty much any southern U.S. state, you could definitely call it a widely-shared opinion.

    And most people don’t care if you think they are gross, creepy and an asshole as long as you don’t treat them like shit in return. Which is the issue here- people treating furries like shit. Always. For existing. Because, like you, they think they are gross and creepy.

    And, on top of that, as I pointed out, some people call others furry as an insult because there’s another F- word they know they can’t use. But they have no problem using it when they know they’re around fellows.



  • Exactly, trying to paint me as a homophobe,

    Lie. I explained what I was doing.

    by pretending people wearing fursuits is the same as homosexual people “kissing and holding hands”

    Because it is no different. It doesn’t hurt you either way.

    rather than closer to wearing leather or latex.

    Again, other than you personally finding it disgusting, what is wrong with it? Do you think society should cater to your whims?


  • Why do you specify gay people kissing or holding hands then in your previous comment?

    Why do you think I specified it? To show the bigotry you aren’t aware you have.

    you have your sights set on trying to pin me as a homophobe so bad you can’t see that I’ve been the one talking about straight people doing the creepy shit all along while you brought up the gay angle.

    No, I am showing how you are being the same as homophobic bigots with people who have other ideas of what attracts them. If you said something racist about Asian people and I compared you to someone who said something racist about Native Americans, that would be an apt comparison.

    And because involving people in your kinks against their will

    Do you not have a neck? Do you not have eyelids? No one is forcing you to look at someone in dominatrix gear if they’re out in public. This is ridiculous prudishness.

    exhibit A: man licks boot on subway. Just do that shit in private (or private enough public locations, like a bar, con, club, etc). There’s places for that, the subway, park, store, whatever, ain’t it.

    Why? Because you don’t like to look at it?

    I don’t like to look at sweaty, shirtless middle-aged guys walking around when it’s too hot. It disgusts me when I see it. Should my disgust be catered to or should I just put on my big boy pants and cope?


  • Sorry… you’re comparing someone doing a “cute anime girl” thing in a fursuit with licking boots on a subway?

    That’s ludicrous.

    Gay people can also go way too far with sexual shit in public

    You have an unnecessary word at the beginning of that sentence which shows your biases.

    Also, if someone wants to walk around in dominatrix gear- as long as they aren’t violating any local nudity laws, why do you give a shit?










  • The fact that they insist it isn’t sexual, when it clearly is at least for many. It gives me the same “don’t involve me in your kinks” feeling like if I saw a dominatrix and her sub licking her heels in a McDonalds, and the fact that for many it is sexual means that the ones that are “just for fun” get caught in that crossfire and make me feel that same gross feeling. Again not kink shaming, just non consensually involving the public in your kinks shaming, as consent is important.

    Okay, but when do you see people in fursuits just walking around in public? I can’t think of a time. I don’t think they are involving people in their kinks. Not most of the time anyway.