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Cake day: December 12th, 2023

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  • Absolutely agree. I was a teen when it passed so did not really experience beforehand. But now I’ve been looking at pet insurance and the preexisting thing is crazy! I don’t know if it’s the same as it used to be for us, but the pet stuff is set up so even if you had one company the entire life of the pet, if you try to change companies the new company won’t cover any issues that the old company did because now they are pre-existing 😒 and a few months ago an insurance company dropped like everybody from their company so they couldn’t really get a new plan because now everything is preexisting. And it wasn’t even their choice to move. I think only 1 company allowed people to switch and honor what the old company covered.

    Not to mention for us, long term disability insurance also doesn’t cover preexisting conditions. I think most life insurance doesn’t either.


  • You may have heard about “Obamacare” or the “Affordable Care Act”. This did a lot of things which helped some but also did not do much.

    For example, insurance premiums can cost hundreds of dollars per month, but if you get subsidies you can reduce that cost down to, potentially, zero. Unfortunately these subsidies are in the form of tax credits, which means if you don’t work you do not get any subsidies.

    Additionally, if you happen to live in a red state, then your state probably didn’t expand Medicaid. Medicaid is the government insurance for poor people. If your state didn’t expand it, then your state only gives Medicaid to families and disabled people (basically). So if you don’t have kids, you don’t qualify for it.

    For me, this means that when I stopped working and got insurance through the ACA, I had to pay $500 per month in health insurance premiums (dental and vision are separate insurance plans and not typically covered in standard health insurance). Did I mention this was while I wasn’t working?

    With that $500 per month, I still had a $900 deductible (so I had to pay $900 before the insurance company would pay anything). After that $900, my insurance company paid different rates depending on the service (often called coinsurance). A common percentage is 80/20, which means insurance will pay 80% and you will pay 20%. So hospital bills tend to be thousands of dollars. BUT insurance plans also have what’s called an “out of pocket max” which means your insurance will cover services at 100%. So any medical things you do after that magic number are basically free for you (you still have to pay the premium).

    Ok, but you might have also heard that elderly folks have their own government insurance - called Medicare. Medicare is also available for disabled people like me.

    Medicare is confusing AF. It has multiple parts to it - I will only talk about what’s called “traditional Medicare”, which basically means everything is between you and the government (There’s other Medicare plans through private insurance companies, and those plans are similar to what I described above).

    So with traditional Medicare there’s Part A (hospital), Part B (basically outpatient services), and Part D (prescriptions). Part A is free for most people, part B currently costs about $75 per month, and part D varies but is much like the private insurance above. If you only have part A, then only hospital visits will be covered. If you only have A and B, then none of your medications will be covered! It sucks.

    So remember how I said about the deductibles and coinsurance? So Medicare has their deductibles and coinsurance separate for each part! For my part A, if I go to the hospital, it comes out to about $1300 per DAY, but only for short hospital stays. Oh and that’s only for room and board. Longer hospital stays have different rates. Also, if you stay in the hospital too long, it starts going against your lifetime hospital days. That’s right, if you use up all your lifetime hospital days, then Medicare will just…not cover your hospitalization anymore. Ever. For the rest of your life!

    And don’t forget you still have to pay extra for any imaging, medications, and doctor visits you had while in the hospital because the daily rate is basically for the bed.

    Part B is a straight 80/20 coinsurance. But part B also doesn’t have an out of pocket maximum. So if you have a lot of outpatient procedures, then you will end up paying out the nose for it. Currently I basically just end up paying around $30 for each doctor’s appointment (not including lab work or any procedures).

    Part D depends on what plan you get. Mine was basically 80/20, which means I was going to have to pay outrageous amounts for medications! I’m on like 25 medications and it was going to be hundreds of dollars each month just for the prescriptions. Luckily, we have programs like GoodRx! Which is basically a coupon but for medications. Unfortunately, you can’t use insurance if you use GoodRx. Also, the pharmacy won’t usually automatically compare the prices to see which method would come out cheaper for the patient. Oh, also, each pharmacy has a different price for the same medication! I’m not even talking a few dollars. Some medications can be hundreds of dollars different in pricing depending on which pharmacy you go to! And it’s not consistent either. So basically if you’re on Medicare you get to go on GoodRx every month for each prescription and see where you can get it the cheapest at and then either ask your doc to send it there or try to get it transferred. Imagine doing that with 25 prescriptions every single month!

    Luckily for me, I qualify for what’s called “Extra Help.” This program pays for my Part B premium ($75) as well as part of my part D premium (it was about $100 but with the help it’s down to $75). They also bring all my prescription costs to $1.55 per medication per month. Unless it’s a brand name medication… 😬

    If you’re following, when I had private insurance I was paying $500 per month in premiums alone, plus about $50-100 per month in doctor’s visits, plus about $50-100 per month in prescriptions until I met my out of pocket maximum. Then just the premium.

    Nowadays, I have Medicare + Extra Help. So I pay $75 per month for my prescription premiums, plus currently about $200/month in doctor’s visits, plus about $50/month in prescriptions. So it comes out cheaper currently but if I have to go to the hospital again…well, I’m fucked.

    By the way, most insurance plans do not have out of network coverage…so if you go somewhere that doesn’t have a contract with your insurance company then you will probably have to foot the bill. And a lot of the charity programs that hospitals and doctors have won’t let you apply if you have insurance soooooooooooo…

    A few years ago, I went to a treatment center for a few months. My total bill was almost $200,000. My personal portion was supposed to be around $15,000. Did I mention I wasn’t working? Right. Luckily the treatment center enjoys the tax benefits they get when they write off people’s bills, because they wrote mine off. I still had to file for bankruptcy though, because that wasn’t my only medical bill.

    PS insurance is often provided by your job here so if you lose your job you, at maximum, have until the end of the month with your insurance :) so don’t quit your job at the end of the month ;) there is a thing called COBRA which is supposed to bridge the gap between jobs, but it’s usually something ridiculously expensive like $700 per month for a single person’s premium (yeah, you have to pay more premiums if you want your spouse and/or kids to be covered).






  • Alright, I found my list :) I apologize in advance for the length lol. I don’t know how familiar you are with mods, so here is some context:

    I use a PC and was not successful in helping a friend get mods on her Mac, so I don’t know if these work on a Mac. Mobile mods are also much harder to get to work mainly because of OS restrictions but also because phones are different, so most of these probably won’t work on mobile. Also, if you already have an unmodded game going you should be aware that adding mods could break it. There are ways to turn them off and on but I’ve only done it once (for a multiplayer game) and it was a lot of work lol. I think it’d be easier if I had a better memory and played more often though. There are also ways to have different folders of mods if you go between single and multiplayer, so that might be helpful if the people you’re playing with have different or no mods.

    I get my mods from Nexus Mods and I have the Vortex mod manager, which will tell you when each one is due for an update (with a few errors). There is at least one other mod manager but I have never used it.

    These are just the mods I intentionally sought out - each one will have its own dependencies (additional mods to download) - all of them require SMAPI iirc, which is basically a way for modders to make mods work without reinventing the wheel.

    The expansion mods will have the most dependences since they add so many things to the game. Also, I have not updated my list for awhile and there has been at least one big update recently, so some of these mods may not work anymore or may now be implemented into the game itself.

    I added a brief description of each mod, but their Nexus page will have the best and most updated description, as well as a place for any issues/bugs that have come up.

    1. Tractor mod - allows you to use a tractor to plant crops, go to the mine, etc. I haven’t actually used this one but I’ve had it forever lol. The tractor costs a lot of money so you will not be able to use it right away.
    2. Lookup anything - this allows you to have basically an encyclopedia. Some details include when and where to fish for certain fish, what objects can be used to make other objects, etc. It also has pictures so you know what things look like.
    3. Chests anywhere - this allows you to access chests basically anywhere in the game instead of just when you are directly in front of them. Note that if you are playing multiplayer then only the host will have access to all of the chests if they are anywhere besides the homestead. Something to do with syncing I believe?
    4. Automate - this automates certain tasks, such as using the furnace or making mayonnaise, so you can spend time doing other things like finishing quests and talking to people (or just exploring).
    5. Farm type manager - allows you to spawn various items anywhere (like rocks, plants, monsters, etc). I don’t believe the season matters but I don’t really use this mod much.
    6. East Scarp - an expansion mod. It adds a new location/map as well as new characters and quests. I would consider this the middle expansion if I rank all 3 of the expansion mods I use by size/complexity.
    7. Swim - allows you to swim almost anywhere there’s water. Has an additional download so there can be an underwater map with quests etc. i have never downloaded the extra map. Also, you may want to change the swim button if you download the warp mod since they default to the same button. But it’s not a super big deal if you don’t change it (the button is what allows your player to swim vs prevents it, helpful if you need to do something on the shoreline or the dock and don’t want to jump in the water).
    8. Ridgeside Village - expansion mod. Adds a lot of characters, quests, etc. This is the biggest/most complex expansion mod that I have imo.
    9. Free Love - allows you to have multiple spouses without making anyone mad. I would use alongside the date night mod so you don’t get overrun by date requests! They get offended if you don’t go out with them lol.
    10. Destroyable bushes - allows you to cut down bushes as you would a tree for extra wood. I don’t use it much.
    11. Stardew valley expanded - expansion that adds more characters and quests. I would consider this the smallest one that I have, although it’s probably actually the biggest one if you actually use all of the locations/quests. There are just some things I refuse to do lol
    12. NPC map locations - shows where each person is currently on the map. I think it also shows player locations? Pretty sure lol. Also it works for all of the maps afaik.
    13. Automatic gates - gates open and close automatically
    14. Mikey’s Greenhouse - allows you to make a bigger greenhouse. I recommend setting this one up at the beginning because it’s a pain in the ass if your greenhouse already has stuff in it.
    15. Warp multiplayer - warp to like 6 different locations on the map, including a custom location, without using any equipment. Can be used on singleplayer.
    16. Warp multiplayer (locations) - used alongside the above mod. Not sure why you need both. But you do lol.
    17. Wear more rings - allows you to wear more rings than normal. Can be customized - i think i can wear up to 16 rings but not sure. At some point you don’t really need all those extra rings because you can combine them. However it is very easy to change the number of rings you can wear - it’s a slider bar in the mod menu.
    18. Pause time in multiplayer - allows you to pause the game (works in single player as well). IIRC a majority of the players (both if it’s 2 players) have to agree to pause before it will pause.
    19. Date night - allows you to choose the probability that you will go on a date with your partner. I recommend setting it very low if you have multiple partners. Otherwise two or more will ask you on a date on the same night and you will make somebody upset.
    20. Craftable autopetter - allows you to craft an autopetter, which will save you from the tedious task of petting your animals (you can still pet them if you want but they wont be upset if you dont)
    21. Event limiter - sets the number of events that will happen in a day. I must use this for another mod because i have never configured this one.
    22. Greenhouse sprinklers - adds an upgrade option to your greenhouse so that you dont have to water everything. I believe there are 2 upgrades but i can’t remember why.
    23. Show birthdays - this will tell you everyones birthday on a given day on the calendar. Extremely helpful with expansion mods.
    24. Deluxe grabber redux - allows the grabber to pick up pretty much everything in the area instead of whatever the game limits it to.
    25. Plant and fertilize all - plant or fertilize the entire area with the press of a button. Extremely helpful if you have a large area you want to do at once. Not helpful if you want to plant multiple types of things.
    26. PFM automate - this is another automation mod, I’m not sure which one is current so I would look at the one I listed earlier as well.
    27. Better chests - name, categorizes, change size, carry chests…so many things you can do
    28. Fruit tree honey - make honey from fruit trees instead of just flowers
    29. Gift taste helper - hover tip that tells what someones favorite gift is (calendar or social page)
    30. Skull cavern toggle - change difficulty of the skull cavern. I believe this has been added to the vanilla game since i last updated mine.
    31. Skull cavern elevator - adds an elevator to the skull cavern. Absolutely required to relieve the stress that is the skull cavern lol. You can thank me later 😂
    32. Reverse proposal - allows NPC to ask you on a date
    33. Lockpicks - a purchaseable item that allows you to go into peoples houses in the middle of the night (or whenever else they might be locked). Kinda creepy and i never ended up needing it lol
    34. Custom music - use your own background music. I got frustrated and removed it bc it turns out i really like the game’s music lol
    35. Convenient chests - allows you to craft and cook from nearby chests. I think better chests also does this so idk if i actually use both or not. But either way it’s nice to not have to reach into each chest and grab things. Just remember if you use this that it may use something you were trying to save, so keep that in mind.
    36. Simple crop label - hover tip of what each crop is. Great if you always forget what you planted (especially if you don’t play regularly)

    Let me know if I can help in any way :) I hope you find this useful!











  • It’s ridiculous how much rebuilding takes, at least in the US, and how much racism and classism plays into it.

    I went to NOLA like 5 years after Hurricane Katrina and most of the houses I saw in “certain” (poor) neighborhoods still had the spray paint on them from first responders. Also one of the (predominantly black) universities there I don’t think had fully rebuilt either at that point while the other (predominantly white) university had just gotten a new sports field.

    I just can’t imagine being in a war torn place where much of the world hardly acknowledges you as a human and trying to rebuild your community.

    It just blows my mind every day the cruelty in this world - and the fact that there are so many genocides happening simultaneously. I still remember when I was a small child finding out that WW2 did not hold the only genocide the world had ever or would ever see. I still can’t quite wrap my head around it.