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Cake day: February 22nd, 2026

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  • Once, I got a whole pizza pie from the place down the street, and ate it while hanging with my cat and playing some nice single player games.

    Another time, a friend of mine surprise ordered me Indian food. Ate it while playing video games with the cat.

    Different time, was cat sitting for a friend. She ordered me a pie, which I ate while playing games and chilling with the cat.

    All were pretty good, really.

    The why was “I’m not that close with my family, don’t want to travel, and I’m not seeing anyone who invited me”


    • gym teacher manager. Not great at the math and science parts, but believes in his team
    • checked out youth. Watches YouTube instead of working.
    • checked out elder. He’s so close to retiring. He’s got stories to tell from before HR was all formalized
    • checked out middle career guy. He wanted to fix things. Then he fell into the tar pit. Why bother when a ten minute fix is going to take two research spikes, a stakeholder meeting, a team meeting, a feedback meeting, a sprint planning meeting and so on. Fuck it.
    • day care HR. Do they work? Who knows. They seem nice, when you can find them.
    • quiet union sympathizer. Got a “talking to” about it, so now he just shit talks management in back channels. Joins meetings smoking from his back porch. Knows where some bodies are buried.

    I work at a bad place.












  • jtrek@startrek.websitetomemes@lemmy.worldinfinite money glitch
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    4 days ago

    I remember once on a forum a big cis het guy was saying that he’s never seen cat calling on the street. Never him, and never at any of his friends. Someone pointed out that since he’s a big dude, he’s probably not going to be catcalled, and other shitty dudes are likely not going to bother people near him because of patriarchy.

    To everyone’s surprise, he came back and was like “ok that makes sense. And I asked my women friends and they told me a lot of stories”

    Rare to see someone change their mind like that.


  • I thought the conservative stance was that there’s no systemic racism.

    I mean, there’s no limit to how stupid people can be. But I think a lot of conservatives like to say that the racism of the past doesn’t matter anymore. That a family that was enslaved 160 years ago (just beyond living memory now, but potentially someone’s great-great-grandparent), and then subject to Jim Crow and other cruelties through… generously the 1960s but realistically the 1980s, that family has no long lasting effects.

    But really it’s important to remember that conservatives just say things. They don’t care about facts or truth. They care about power, and their emotions. So even if you proved that racism was systemic and had measurable effects (eg: The Color of Law), it won’t matter. They don’t care about facts. They care about feelings.

    This is funny because many conservatives say things like “facts don’t care about your feelings”, but it’s well known that conservatives project more than movie theaters.