

OP can’t pivot to a “no gifts” rule when prior gifts have been well received and did enrich OP’s life.
I’d certainly argue he can pivot. He just can’t expect adherence prior to voicing that opinion. I’d also mention that despite my personal “no gifts” rule, I’ve received gifts that were spectacular. With the rule in place it seems to force people to actually put thought into the gift rather than just trying to get somewhat close to my current interests and hobbies.



Can’t protect them too much, though. Otherwise, how would the pedo-in-chief and his ilk get a fresh crop of sex slaves?